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I like the asshole that sits next to me in Government... why can't I stop thinking about him?


Question Posted Tuesday February 7 2012, 6:44 pm

I am a senior in high school. Female. I have know this particular boy since the 7th grade. This year he is in my Government class. He seemed so cute at first and we started texting as more than friends. Maybe he didn't get the memo that we were flirting hard. Then one day in class, I saw his lock screen on his Iphone set as a picture of my Freshman cousin.. So he laughed and said he was just joking but later he told me he was talking to her.
A few days later he told me he was taking her on a date but that she stood him up so that he no longer liked him. I didn't care. Me and my cousin aren't close at all
So we started talking again for about 2 weeks until he makes it quiet clear that he ONLY wants sex from me. He, at first, told me he wanted sex and I, for some reason, didn't want to disappoint him so I played along and acted as if I would actually do that. But then he texted me and wanted me to sneak over, and when I didn't he told me that if we didn't have sex that he wouldn't talk to me anymore. So yes, He is an asshole. I know.
But WHY can't I stop thinking about him, Facebook stalking him, flirting with him in class (despite him making fun of me), and wishing SO BAD he would like me?!


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trademark4003 answered Wednesday February 8 2012, 7:03 am:
theres this thing, it's called self respect, sounds like you need some. why would you want to be with somebody who sees you as nothing more than a piece of *ss? one thing you need to learn sweetie, you cant MAKE anybody like you, either they do or they dont. put your energies elsewhere where they will be more appreciated. you deserve more than this one-track minded idiot can give you sweetie.

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babymoby answered Tuesday February 7 2012, 11:54 pm:
Let me make this clear...This guy impacted your life. All he wanted was sex and nothing more s stayaway from him as he is not responsible or cares about you. FORGET HIM. Thinkabout different things right now you may feel bad for leaving or you may feel hurt and want him since you have gotten used to him and things are different now. This same thing happened to me and i stil think about and wish he likes me but I think about other things to get him off my mind you mayas also be frightened but he wasn't a good friend at all. So keep your self safe and don't let him impact your life right now anymore.

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