I'm thirteen and my boyfriend just recently broke up with me. When I asked him why, he said it was because I was too obsessive.
Whenever we're together, we share jokes and tell what's happening in our lives. I text him whenever there's a problem or if something important is going to happen to me. I don't recall buying gifts for him or making his picture my desktop background, while he buys me gifts and makes my picture his desktop background. I treat him like a best friend except that I really like him, while he treats me like he loves me.
Am I obsessive? What will I do for everything to be okay again?
Xui answered Sunday February 5 2012, 8:04 pm: Doesn't sound like it however you are thirteen years old. Maybe the kid wasn't ready for a relationship. Yes, believe it or not this is a possibility.
Being obsessive doesn't describe what you've written above, Someone who is obsessed can't stop talking, calling, seeing the person and sometimes being obsessed with someone can lead to stalking and controlling them. This doesn't sound like you at all, In the meantime if he isn't ready to date maybe you should just move on and find someone else that is. If you tried to beg him to take you back, Kept trying to contact him etc. Then yes maybe I would then say you were being a bit needy... [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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