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So In 2008 to early 2011, I used to hump my pillow (Weird, I know) but I don't anymore and never will.

But recently, i've been having these weird dreams. I don't have them every day, but probably 5 times a month. I want them to stop! I have dreams about me or someone else humping someone/something. And sometimes I FEEL it. How?! I'm asleep! And I sleep in my living room (My mom is awake ALL NIGHT in our living room) and what if i'm humping in my sleep?! They've never said anything, but I don't know.

These started in the middle of April. How do I make these stop permanently? I don't want to tell anyone about it. I'm afraid this'll get my pregnant! ;(
Unfortunately you can't change what you dream about. The human subconscious is a crazy, crazy thing and can make us dream very strange things against our will.

With puberty oncoming and hormones flooding your system, you're probably going to experience some sexual dreaming. It happens to everyone. At least you have the benefit of being female... boys have nocturnal emissions when they dream like that, and it's no picnic from what I've heard.

You can absolutely not get pregnant from dreaming. The only way you can possibly get pregnant is if your genitals come in contact with semen. Period, end of story. Masturbation won't get you pregnant and sex dreams won't get you pregnant.

The worst you might have to deal with is a bit of laughter from your mother if she sees anything, but if it's any consolation it's pretty uncommon to move around a lot during deep sleep. If she hasn't said anything, she probably hasn't noticed anything out of the ordinary.

You could try looking up lucid dreaming, which is a technique that some people use to try to control their dreams. I've never used it myself, but there are those who swear by it. Otherwise it's just a matter of waiting until your hormones calm down a little bit.

Thank you thank you THANK YOU!! You helped so much. And i'll be sure to research lucid dreaming :)

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