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Ok. I'm sorry if I make this akward but my boyfriend, nathan, sometimes pressures me into things I don't really want to do. I really love him and I have never felt this way about anyone. I don't want to break up with him but he pressured me into having sex in his friends house and now I feel like a slut. He males me feel that way sometimes and everything is always bout sex. He loves me and he cares slot bout me but idk what to do! Someone please help me!!! I'm a girl and I'm 13 (link)
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You're your own person and you should be able to make your own decisions about what or what not to do. You should be able to just say no and Nathan should respect your decision.
13 is far too young to be even considering to be having sex so I'm very concerned on that front. Especially if you didn't use protection and I would like to know if you did or not because that could complicate things even further.
I'm sure he cares about you and loves you, but even then, he should know that you're both too young to be doing this kind of thing. However, I do have my doubts because nobody forces somebody to do something which they don't want to do.
Don't feel like that, because it wasn't your decision and he forced you into it. If I was in your position, I would go and get rid of him because he clearly isn't yet ready to have a girlfriend because he is still thinking that everything is about sex, so protect yourself from it from happening again.
This isn't a lecture, I'm trying to help you protect yourself and I'm sure you don't want that small incident from happening again.
Cliff notes version: leave him because he's not ready to have a girlfriend if he thinks that everything is about sex and pressurizing you into doing something which you didn't want to do.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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Thanks foril your help. I have been really confused latly. I am not going to break up with him but I have decided to make a few changes between us. Thank you again for your advice!!
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