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When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,

When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,

When the funds are low, and the debts are high,

And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,

When care is pressing you down a bit,

Rest if you must, but don't you quit.



Life is queer with its twists and turns,

As every one of us sometimes learns,

And many a failure turns about,

when he might have won had he stuck it out;

Don't give up though the pace seems slow,

You may succeed with another blow.



Success is failure turned inside out,

The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,

And you never can tell how close you are,

It may be near when it seems so far;

So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit,

It's when things seem worst, that

You Must Not Quit.


advice

so almost 10 months ago, i broke up with my boyfriend. ive broken up with him twice before, but i always want him back. i dont even know why i break up with him. but i wanted him back after i broke up with him 10 months ago. he said he probably wouldnt date me again because i broke up with him. and now he has another girlfriend. im still not over him, and i really want him back. i just want him to know that ill never hurt him again and that i still love him. i dont want to break him up with his current girlfriend, but i want him for myself. i kinda screwed things up, but i want them fixed and i want us together again.
HELP!

just tell him exactley what you told me.
if you do, he should listen. ;]

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well, my bf and i have been going out for about a year and we are in our last year of high school! last year at the end of the school year my bf told me that we would deffinatley do "IT" next year! We have talked about it before but i just kind of ignored it. So do you think i should give him a chance?
love,
makenzie joeliey!

deat makenzie joeliey!,
If you want to try it, do it. Dont do it just becuuase he wants to. if he loves you, he wouldnt force you into it anyways. All i can say is, wait untill your ready.

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one of my friends smokes and i dont no how to tell her that she is killing herself can you help me?
sincerly
......

Dear ....,
Just simpily tell her. She obviously knows.

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i have no self confidence. i think i'm fat and ugly but every one else tells me otherwise. how do i get more self confidence? please help me.

Dear ___,
Confidence is not something you just get. You have to build it up over time. Im sorry to say that there is no way to just "get" confident. BUT i can tell you that when your friends compliment you, take the compliment and feel good about it. if there your friends they wopuldnt lie to you. I know this isnt the answer your looking for, but this should help you.
If i didnt help, ask me the question again and give me more detail.
Sincereley,
Le-yo.

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well, the title says it all. guys don't find me attractive. don't get me wrong, i'd know if i was hideous, but i'm not. all my girl friends say i'm gorgeous, but guys just don't. i have like big boobs and stuff and i'm pretty thin i have pretty clear skin, i'm kinda pale but i don't know what it is. can someone give me an explanation on why or how i can fix this?

ps. i'm really outgoing and flirty with guys... usually. but i recently moved so i kinda lost my flare.

Dear ____'
Donw worry about it. I know it sucks. But everything does happen for a reason. and if you stress out about it, you will fall for the first guy you meet, and that not good. he could be not be what your looking for. Take from me, i am a guy. If you wait you will find the guy of your gdreams and you will be his everything.
Hopefully i helped.

Sincerley,
Le-yo.

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i know everyone hates these, but i really need a song about being hurt, particularly in a relationship/by another person. i broke up with my boyfriend, but it was because he really hurt me.

maybe something saying how everything was perfect, then it was all screwed up so quick.. still feelin the pain and dont know what to do.. i dont know.

id love a slower song, but not slow slow if possible.

i like rock.. seether, madina lake, breaking benjamin, creed, etc...

thanks its appreciated

Dear ___,
I would try,
All hail the heart breaker by Spill canvas.
Its acoustic.
i used to listen to it all them time for relationships.

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my boyfriend treats me bad sometimes... my friends HATE him, because once and a while... when they talk to me, i'm always crying over something he did. all of my friends tell me to break up with him, but that's the thing.. he's not all bad. i really like him too. sometimes, he'll give me the attitude and stuff like that.. and last night he let me cry.. he LET me cry. -__-" he said that i was doing this to myself, and it was all in my head.. when i know it wasn't all in my head because i'm usually a happy person, and i wouldn't cry for no reason. so when i was tearing up or crying.. he wouldn't comfort me. until i blow up like crazy.. THATS WHEN HE COMFORTS ME. when i wouldn't have been crying like that if he comforted me in the first place.. those are some of the things he does to me. i asked him to change for me.. because the stuff he does and says hurts me. so he PROMISED that he would. and it's been a while.. until last night he said he really will change this time for good. i don't really want to keep waiting to see if he really is going to. my friends says that if he really did care, he would've changed already. and he begged me for another chance and he PROMISED AGAIN, he really will change. i'm about to loose hope that he really is going to do this for me. all of this is getting me stressed out.. and i'm too young to be having this kind of stress.. and crying too hard to have my side hurting. should i give him another chance? or break up with him? or should i just wait and see what happens?

OHHH and again, he's not all that bad.. he changed a little and he says he did change.. but i just don't see it. -____-" but it's kind of hard for me to if he's treating me like this. and etc. do you think he really will change?

HELP ME PLEASE! by the way... me & him has been together for about 6 months.

Dear ____'
Youve been dating him for 6 months. You obviously like him alot. If he says hes changing and you do see the change, give him some time. But, if you realize that hes not changing, do whats best for you. It might hurt like hell, but if you cant deal with the stress, hes not worth it. Hopefully i helped..
Sincereley,
Le-yo. :]

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ok so i am been dating my bf for 3 months!!! we are perfect for each other! so we have kissed alot, but he is experience more than me adn he wants to make out i have never made out before, and i am scaried to
he saids that he only knows how to make out with tounge, i dont want to seem stupid, cause one i gave him a kiss(peak) and he open his mouth and i backed away, so how do i make out!!?!?!!?!?!?!


sincerly,
softballbabe2610 friend

Dear softballbabe2610,
The first time i made out, i was scared too. I was in the same situation. She was more experienced than i was. I was very scared but i did it anyways. Honestly, its not hard, just kindof go with the flow and you should be fine.
I promise.

Sincereley,
Le-yo.

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my boyfriend and i really want to have sex. but i haven't even let him go to 3rd base because id on't now what to do about down there. like do i shave it or trim it or what? what do guys like? please help!

shave.
:]

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