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my boyfriend treats mee...
my boyfriend treats me bad sometimes... my friends HATE him, because once and a while... when they talk to me, i'm always crying over something he did. all of my friends tell me to break up with him, but that's the thing.. he's not all bad. i really like him too. sometimes, he'll give me the attitude and stuff like that.. and last night he let me cry.. he LET me cry. -__-" he said that i was doing this to myself, and it was all in my head.. when i know it wasn't all in my head because i'm usually a happy person, and i wouldn't cry for no reason. so when i was tearing up or crying.. he wouldn't comfort me. until i blow up like crazy.. THATS WHEN HE COMFORTS ME. when i wouldn't have been crying like that if he comforted me in the first place.. those are some of the things he does to me. i asked him to change for me.. because the stuff he does and says hurts me. so he PROMISED that he would. and it's been a while.. until last night he said he really will change this time for good. i don't really want to keep waiting to see if he really is going to. my friends says that if he really did care, he would've changed already. and he begged me for another chance and he PROMISED AGAIN, he really will change. i'm about to loose hope that he really is going to do this for me. all of this is getting me stressed out.. and i'm too young to be having this kind of stress.. and crying too hard to have my side hurting. should i give him another chance? or break up with him? or should i just wait and see what happens?
OHHH and again, he's not all that bad.. he changed a little and he says he did change.. but i just don't see it. -____-" but it's kind of hard for me to if he's treating me like this. and etc. do you think he really will change?
HELP ME PLEASE! by the way... me & him has been together for about 6 months.
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Dear ____'
Youve been dating him for 6 months. You obviously like him alot. If he says hes changing and you do see the change, give him some time. But, if you realize that hes not changing, do whats best for you. It might hurt like hell, but if you cant deal with the stress, hes not worth it. Hopefully i helped..
Sincereley,
Le-yo. :]
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You deliberately left your question VERY vague.
It's impossible for us to even geuss if he will change, or if your expectations and responses are reasonable or excessive.
Your question left us knowing almost nothing about your situation except this:
You are fed up with him and not happy. You don't really want to be with him anymore. You are just waiting for something bad enough to happen to make you break up with him.
I've been there and I know it sucks, but if you know it isn't working, break up NOW. Don't drag it out any longer.
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well..im hes not all that bad stick with him and just keep stressing how you feel if he doesnt change within a month hes not worth it
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well, it's quite obvious that you like him alot because you keep saying how nice he can be and stuff. and your friends tell you to break up with him and thats probably hard for you because you like him so much. now, maybe he hasn't changed yet because he doesn't know how. he's not sure what he's doing wrong and he's just doing it all over again. do you should sit him down and tell him what upsets you and if he can work on it. and he still doesn't over the next few weeks then you're gonna have to break it off. no guy is worth your tears and pain if they're not willing to change for you then you need a break. i hope it all works out :]
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ok i'm kinda missing the point here... what exactly did he do to you that makes you so mad??
Honestly, your friends are right. No relationship is worth all of this drama and crying. You can find another guy who's just as good as him and you don't have to be crying all the time.
If you've been with him for 6 months.... well for me thats a REALLY long time. So maybe you 2 just need time away from each other. If you're like 13-18 then those kind of relationships are not even worth it because you won't be together forever. but if you're like 19 or older, then this would be serious for you. Take him by the hand and really let out your feelings in front of him. Tell him everything you told us. If he still is acting this way, then dump him. again, he's not worth it.
-volleyball2150
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