okay, well me and my boyfriend has been together for about 7 months, and he's moving far away from me. and it's bad enough that i have to see him move away... because just to get to his house from mine. has to take a highway. the good news is, that he'll still be able to go our current school. he also said that we'll see eachother regularly like we do all the time... but i don't want to bother his parents so i can go over to his house all the time. he can't come over to my house, because my parents don't like him, and becuase i'm not alowed to have a boyfriend at this time. -____-" so i usually go over to his house instead. my sister says that we might not be able to see eachother as much as we usually do, because he lives SO far. but my boyfriend says we will... because he's doing work around the house so his parents HAS to take me. but some how.. i'm still nervous...
do you think we'll be able to see eachother regularly like he says? it's worse enough that i had to see him move far away like this.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XoXoXoXo77 answered Friday November 23 2007, 11:16 pm: i dont think the person below me read the question well enough..you'll still be going to the same school so i wouldnt worry that much. at least you get to see him every day :] but like i know how you feel. its not the same seeing your bf at school as seeing him at your house or his house.... haha. it sounds liek you will probably be able to go to his house at least sometimes.. and other times maybe you can both go to another friends house or go see a movie go out to dinner etc. if youre not old enough to drive and your parents dont want to drive you there ask an older friend, sibling, cousin, his parents, etc. to drive you.
Brandi_S answered Friday November 23 2007, 10:02 pm: First off, it depends on how far is SO far. An hour away? 2 hours away? An hour drive is a long trip when gas is so high priced.
Also you have to consider that he will be busy making a new life for himself in a new town and a new school and getting to know new friends.
So don't panic if he is busy.
Also it depends on how 'regularly' you see each other now. Since he is moving so far, it probably won't be as often as you see one another now. Like, you will doubtfully see him every day, or every 3 days for that matter. Depending on how far he is moving, you may not even be able to see each other once a week, so be prepared for that possible outcome.
But keep in mind that he is only a phone call away.
emiliza answered Friday November 23 2007, 8:50 pm: awww. im really sorry. maybe you could make a schedule for certain days to see eachother. like on weekends, fridays, wednsdays, and mondays if you can live without seeing eachother on tuesdays and thursdays. thats how i would handle it. [ emiliza's advice column | Ask emiliza A Question ]
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