well, the title says it all. guys don't find me attractive. don't get me wrong, i'd know if i was hideous, but i'm not. all my girl friends say i'm gorgeous, but guys just don't. i have like big boobs and stuff and i'm pretty thin i have pretty clear skin, i'm kinda pale but i don't know what it is. can someone give me an explanation on why or how i can fix this?
ps. i'm really outgoing and flirty with guys... usually. but i recently moved so i kinda lost my flare.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? VIOLETshroom answered Monday November 26 2007, 7:32 pm: hello darling,
i find that very hard to believe that none of the guys find you attractive. you probably are very gorgeous and you know that there is that one special person out there for you and you just have to wait until you find that one special guy that loves you for who you are. i'm sure that you have a great personality and not all guys are just looking at your looks, they look at personality too. the best advice i can give you is to just be yourself and you'll find the one guy that like i said earlier will love you for who you are. just go for it.
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LoveNJstyle answered Saturday November 24 2007, 8:50 pm: How recently did you move?
Once i moved, i thought i just wasnt attractive anymore but it's really cuz the guys don't know you.
once you get to know some, things will go back to normal. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
Leyo answered Saturday November 24 2007, 1:44 pm: Dear ____'
Donw worry about it. I know it sucks. But everything does happen for a reason. and if you stress out about it, you will fall for the first guy you meet, and that not good. he could be not be what your looking for. Take from me, i am a guy. If you wait you will find the guy of your gdreams and you will be his everything.
Hopefully i helped.
DearAbby92 answered Saturday November 24 2007, 12:45 pm: Guys don't usually call girls "gorgeous" or "beautiful". It's just not in their language. And if they know you, they won't just say "your hot." If your worried about being pale, you can easily get a spray on self tanner. [ DearAbby92's advice column | Ask DearAbby92 A Question ]
lilteacup answered Saturday November 24 2007, 2:46 am: If you are still in high school, it is probably just immaturity on the guys part. They look for easy girls, and that's what most care about. If not, it could be that you intimidate guys or they think of you as too much of a friend.
You can try asking a guy out, going out with a guy that you don't go to school with, or just wait it out.
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