I'm closing my account after being on this site for longer than I can remember right now.
I would like to say thank you to all the columnists that I've met through this site, may your hearts of gold continue to shine through this site.
My reason is simple: I no longer feel I have a use for it anymore. I once was a person who couldn't help other people because of certain difficult situations in my past, but all that has now changed. This site allowed me to be who I really was and for that I'm so grateful for that. It played a very important role in my life and I'll never forget it!
The questions which I answered allowed me to reflect on my life and where it was going, and gave me the opportunity to really appreciate the life that I have, which I'm now living with open arms.
I wish you well for the future,
Triquetra....signing off for the last time.
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Okay, my Boyfriend (18) and I (15) have been dating 11 months today, (12-25-08). WE'VE flat out been through HELL! His ex girlfriend, has egged his house, threatened to kill me, I had to take the psycho to court! Me & him made it through that, and that was definately crazy!
Here lately, we fight, not over huge things, but over small stupid things. When we fight, its over stuff like me buying him something and him simply not giving me the money to do it in the first place. Well, my mother had this chat with his mother, she says he wont even let her buy him anything, which i know is true.
Earlier today, we was at his house I was opening presents, and he gets mad at his dad, or aggravated because he cant keep anything over in his garage cause it gets ruined.
Okay...tonite, he was over at my house for christmas, he bought me a promise ring and a journey necklace. We then came up to my room, i took a nap and when i woke up, he was mad?!
He's got a horrible temper, the smallest things turn him off, and I know this, he isnt dangerous or anything though.
I'm just wondering why we fight all the time, and what we can do to stop it, he's going away to college in june, and i dont want it to be the end of this, we've got our minds set to spend the rest of our lives with eachother.
I'm terribly sorry that this is so long, and it probably doesn't make any sense. Thanks for trying! (link)
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Wow, sorry but read your question over, it does not say that all of this happened a year ago so don't get started on that with me young lady. For all I know, it could've happened recently.
If it doesn't involve his ex then don't put it in, if you hadn't, then my answer would've been very different.
So, sorry that I misunderstood, but it is you who are in the wrong for putting something there which really has no significance to this situation as you put in your feedback.
I suggest you re-think as to how YOU responded and see whether it was fair or not. I gave a suggestion which was based on something not relevant, but you put it there, not me so I've got to work with what I've got. As I said before, if it hadn't been there, then the answer would've been different.
triquetra
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I know what I wrote Triquetra, I was just giving background information about our relationship about what all we had went through, and we could get past this that I just needed the encouragement. So maybe you shouldnt jump into this being about his ex? Idk why you reported me but whatever. No biggie. & Nahh I'm not in the wrong, your supposed to GIVE ADVICE. Not make ppl feel like shit. Not being rude, but its true. I know I responded unfair, but I was just responding to what you wrote back to me.
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