I'm closing my account after being on this site for longer than I can remember right now.
I would like to say thank you to all the columnists that I've met through this site, may your hearts of gold continue to shine through this site.
My reason is simple: I no longer feel I have a use for it anymore. I once was a person who couldn't help other people because of certain difficult situations in my past, but all that has now changed. This site allowed me to be who I really was and for that I'm so grateful for that. It played a very important role in my life and I'll never forget it!
The questions which I answered allowed me to reflect on my life and where it was going, and gave me the opportunity to really appreciate the life that I have, which I'm now living with open arms.
I wish you well for the future,
Triquetra....signing off for the last time.
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this guy. We went out for about a year. I think i was inlove with him. When we used to fight, i would ignore him for a while because i didn't want to deal with him, then i would talk to him later after. days later. I miss him so much. he's told one of my friends that he still likes me, but i guess i'm not supposed to know, even his best friend thought that he mite still like me because he was talking about me a lot at his school...i still love him...i can't stop thinking about him...and it makes me super jealous to know that he seems to be doing fine without me....i'm just so depressed. Life is going straight downhill, and i'm hanging in there. I just need advice about this one issue. So one of my ex's friends called me saying that my ex told him to call me. And i didn't understand why. i was so confused. and at the same time it hurt me because it was like he was calling me a slut or easy or something. And i didn't understand my why he would call me a slut because we never did it. I'm not planning on that anytime soon. We just made out and kind of grinded on each other, and it was almost like we were doing it, but not really because our clothes were on...i guess this could be counted as a slutty, but...what do you guys think? just tryna get help and get myself up... thank you! (link)
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Do you honestly think that he would tell somebody to call you and tell you that you're a slut or things of that nature? Do you really think he's capable of that? Do you even know if your ex told his friend to call you? How do you know whether it isn't his friend just saying that? The answer to that honey is no.
He may look like his handling this breakup well, but that's just on the outside, inside, he may be feeling the same way about you: he can't stop thinking about you. And one thing which points that out to me is the fact that he talks about you. I know from experience that when you've got somebody constantly on your mind, you keep on talking about that person because you're confused as to why you're thinking about that person in the first place, even after a break up.
Talk to him about that call and see what he says and ask him whether it really is as to how he feels about you. Then tell him how you feel. I can tell that this relationship could still work, but only if the two of you are ready to take another shot at it and be a couple, not two separate people.
He needs to explain what he meant by what his friend said because it's not fair on you: he tells his friends that he still likes you, but then asks one of his friends to tell you that you're a slut, something isn't right there.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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thank you!!! i talked to him about it like you said. I asked him why he had given his friends my number, and he said he didn't. He said that his friend put it on him but it was actually someone else that gave his friend my number. you are right. thnk you!!..i'l do my best to get to that point where i can tell him how i feel.
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