I'm closing my account after being on this site for longer than I can remember right now.
I would like to say thank you to all the columnists that I've met through this site, may your hearts of gold continue to shine through this site.
My reason is simple: I no longer feel I have a use for it anymore. I once was a person who couldn't help other people because of certain difficult situations in my past, but all that has now changed. This site allowed me to be who I really was and for that I'm so grateful for that. It played a very important role in my life and I'll never forget it!
The questions which I answered allowed me to reflect on my life and where it was going, and gave me the opportunity to really appreciate the life that I have, which I'm now living with open arms.
I wish you well for the future,
Triquetra....signing off for the last time.
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I am a full time student through a community college but since I registered late, it's independent work I do at home. So I'm at home like all the time, my boyfriend works full time (we live together). I can't find a job. My friends and his are all away at school so at night are seriously bored to tears and get very very irritated with each other and frustrated that there's nothing to do. I seriously get so upset that we are such losers...we're only 20 and we live like 70 year olds! The days are just so long and monotonous because I'm stuck at home doing school work (and because I can't drive) and the nights are depressing and boring and awful. The spark is like gone from our relationship, seriously, because we are so pathetic and bored and there's nothing to do together at night. What can I do? I seriously can't go on like this, it's awful... (link)
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You're letting your school work rule your life. Don't forget that sometimes you need to have fun just to ease off the work load and just relax for a while.
As for your boyfriend, suggest that you go out somewhere together as a couple like the films or go and have dinner in a restaurant. Or call up your friends and ask if you want to hang out together.
And sign up to have driving lessons so you can go out and have fun without needing to depend on your friends to drive you around.
Find something to do: go out shopping, go to a fun fair, go and see places even if you've seen them infinite times. And during the evenings, watch a film which you both like together.
You complain, yet you don't try and fix it.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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