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okayyyy, so me and my friend like six months ago smoked a blunt at my house and took pictures doing it.. i know dumb idea, lol. so yesterday she saw them on her photobucket and decided to put them on her myspace. well, my brother has her as a friend and he saw the pics of me and her, and he copied the pic and sent it to my mom!

so my mom told my dad to loook at my friends myspace, but me and her had deleted it, but we didnt notice it was on her album cover, soooooooo we got screwed.


my mom had a talk with me and told me that she was upset and hurt that i did that but that she wasnt mad, but i did have to be grounded. ):

it wouldnt bother me much to be grounded but at the moment it does, cause the guy i like is gonna leave to Jersy in 8 days, and i wanna see him before he leaves, and now since im grounded idk how im gonna do that.

so, can you help?
how can i get my parents to unground me asap?!
and/or how can i do it to see this guy before he leaves even if im grounded?!


thanks so much!!!!


p.s NO im not a druggy or none of that, im a goooood students and i behave very well (:

Ohh that must be shit :(

Well one thing you could try, is calmly explain to your parents that those pictures were from six months ago, and it was the first and last time you'd smoked a blunt.
Then tell them that a good guy friend is leaving, and you'd like to see him before he goes, so ask them if they'll let you out for like 5 hours. But just once. The rest of the time you still stay grounded.

Don't get mad, or yell at them, or stomp away.
Be calm and mature, and maybe they will understand :)

Goodluck!

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(Rating: 5) damn, your advice was the best :]
thankssss very much.

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