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ah, yes, everyone's favorite question. "HOW DO I MAKE OUT?"
please don't answer with, "it just happens" or, "i can't explain it"
please do answer with, your own experiences of your first "make out." and how it happened. i want to know details of what you did! everything, where you put your hands, your tounge, and what you wore. don't leave out a single detail.
THANKS!

Well it does happen naturally, but since that's not what you wanted, I'll tell you my experience :) :P

I think I was 14 at the time..or almost fourteen..don't remember :) and it was in school. I was sitting outside on a bench with friends, it was pretty random, I get a message, so I get my phone out to read it, and it's from the guy I like saying ''close your eyes for 10 seconds'' I didn't think it was weird cause he always texted me random crap like that, and he's just himself, the most unique person I know. So I closed my eyes for 10 seconds and then suddenly someone jumps on me, and I find myself making out with a guy, open my eyes and it's the guy I like. It was the most random thing ever, but I was also so happy.
My friends were quite jealous, cause he's one of those guys who does whatever the f*ck he wants, and has good looks so it doesn't bother anyone.

After I saw it was him, I had my hands around his neck, and he had his around me... errr with my tongue...people do different things. With my boyfriend you kinda play around with his tongue, sometimes run it along his teeth. Just follow what he does, and you'll realize what you should do.
Like seriously, at the time, before I had my first makeout, I was so f*cking scared of making out, after the guy kissed me, I kind of improvised, and it turned out fine.

Don't worry. Follow his lead, and don't think about it constantly.

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