I'm closing my account after being on this site for longer than I can remember right now.
I would like to say thank you to all the columnists that I've met through this site, may your hearts of gold continue to shine through this site.
My reason is simple: I no longer feel I have a use for it anymore. I once was a person who couldn't help other people because of certain difficult situations in my past, but all that has now changed. This site allowed me to be who I really was and for that I'm so grateful for that. It played a very important role in my life and I'll never forget it!
The questions which I answered allowed me to reflect on my life and where it was going, and gave me the opportunity to really appreciate the life that I have, which I'm now living with open arms.
I wish you well for the future,
Triquetra....signing off for the last time.
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okay so there's this boy john and he's sooooooo cute. me and him just met recently threw my friend marie. we talk daily. and txt. throughout the night. here's the thing, marie and john had a thing sorta until I told him marie hooks up with a guy every party. then after I told him this he automaticully started not liking her. I didn't know he would do that but its not like he doesnt hookup with girls all the time, my other friend Lynn jokes to john tat he has a chode, and she says oh did you and your tiny friend get lucky and said yeahhhhh these girls at the party were so horny. well anyways he's a veryyyyyyy good sweettalker and flirts with me non stop. he says he likes me and is SO glad he met me. is he for real? or a huge fake? (link)
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I can completley disagree with Venom_97. I wouldn't slam the door in his face yet, and be all carefull. What you need to do is to know more about him and see if he is for real.
I can see as to why he would break up with Marie; would you like to go out with a guy who went out with every other girl he met? Of course not.
Ask around and see what they say he's like. It's important. The next thing is to see what YOU feel for him and how you view him. Do you see him as a boyfriend or as a friend?
It's good in all that he's a good sweet talker, but that shouldn't be as to why you talk to him or like him. You should feel something inside you which tells you that you love/like him, it shouldn't come from your head, but from your heart. And you need to ask him face to face as to what he feels for you, for real and see what he says and then decide as to what you want to do from there. If he begins to sweet talk you, push for the facts, don't let that distract you. This isn't a game, this is life.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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