I'm closing my account after being on this site for longer than I can remember right now.
I would like to say thank you to all the columnists that I've met through this site, may your hearts of gold continue to shine through this site.
My reason is simple: I no longer feel I have a use for it anymore. I once was a person who couldn't help other people because of certain difficult situations in my past, but all that has now changed. This site allowed me to be who I really was and for that I'm so grateful for that. It played a very important role in my life and I'll never forget it!
The questions which I answered allowed me to reflect on my life and where it was going, and gave me the opportunity to really appreciate the life that I have, which I'm now living with open arms.
I wish you well for the future,
Triquetra....signing off for the last time.
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so for junior year Mandy came to my high school. She is known as a slut but our school is really chill so everyone was eager for her arrival. me and mandy became really close. shared secrets and instantlyclicked. she was knwn to be a social climber but i ignroed that. then she became friends with the prettiest girl in my grade, Rose (who is also best friends with the hot seniors) and kind of stopped talking to be an my friends. but wtrv we were still friends. then i heard she hooked up with this senior. she never told me about it so i called ehr and kind of hinted it out of her. she got mad that i didnt straght out tlel her but wtvr. then we had a lseep over. that sat night there was a senior party. i am not friends with the seniors but she and Rose did so i came. we all amde a pack to not leave me but they did. i got drunk and bad stuff happened. after the party things were never the same. she stopped tlaing to me and is was really sad. we are going ont he sam summer program so i decided to cal her to clear the air. she was such a b***h!!!!!!!!! like sayingall my bad qulities and stuff and i like was just shocked at how soemone who i was bets friends could htink of me liek that!!! i was like are you kidding me? she said that she views me in a bad light now ever since th party. i was like fi my friend made a mistake iw ould never hold a grudge how dare you! she also said that her and her friedsn could make my friend (who she doesn;t like, who is also going on this summer prigram) life a living hell!! who the hell does she htink she is. i am realllly nervious for summer now. i still have schol time with her which will be awkward but i could handle that. i feel since she is SOOOO manipulative that she will befriend everyone and eveyone will be firneds with ehr and i will have a terriable summer. please help. give me advice that you persoannly would take bc just syaing "ignore her" wont help.
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Okay, before I say anything, watch the spelling. I know that you're angry and want to get everything down quickly, but just take a few seconds to read over and correct any mistakes. It makes our lives bit easier and it also makes the question easier to read.
Your friend isn't a true friend any longer and I think that you know that. You don't have to take anything that she says. If somebody said that to me, you know what I would do? I'd go and give them what I thought about them. Go, pick up the phone and tell your ex-friend what you've written in this letter. She needs to know as to where you stand and you need to make that plain.
You've got nothing to fear for the summer, if she dares to try and spoil it, then she's incredibly selfish and mean. You've cut all ties from her and you've got nothing to do with her. I'm sure that you're a great friend, and if she's passed you up for somebody else who is, what I call, a 'Popular, selfish kid with no life' then that's her problem.
I'm glad that you first tried to make ammends, for it would be the first thing that I would surgest, but since that didn't work, then she's beyond reasoning.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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i dont want to stoop to her level and say bad htigns about her.
thats just wrong.
thanks tho
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