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ex friend
so for junior year Mandy came to my high school. She is known as a slut but our school is really chill so everyone was eager for her arrival. me and mandy became really close. shared secrets and instantlyclicked. she was knwn to be a social climber but i ignroed that. then she became friends with the prettiest girl in my grade, Rose (who is also best friends with the hot seniors) and kind of stopped talking to be an my friends. but wtrv we were still friends. then i heard she hooked up with this senior. she never told me about it so i called ehr and kind of hinted it out of her. she got mad that i didnt straght out tlel her but wtvr. then we had a lseep over. that sat night there was a senior party. i am not friends with the seniors but she and Rose did so i came. we all amde a pack to not leave me but they did. i got drunk and bad stuff happened. after the party things were never the same. she stopped tlaing to me and is was really sad. we are going ont he sam summer program so i decided to cal her to clear the air. she was such a b***h!!!!!!!!! like sayingall my bad qulities and stuff and i like was just shocked at how soemone who i was bets friends could htink of me liek that!!! i was like are you kidding me? she said that she views me in a bad light now ever since th party. i was like fi my friend made a mistake iw ould never hold a grudge how dare you! she also said that her and her friedsn could make my friend (who she doesn;t like, who is also going on this summer prigram) life a living hell!! who the hell does she htink she is. i am realllly nervious for summer now. i still have schol time with her which will be awkward but i could handle that. i feel since she is SOOOO manipulative that she will befriend everyone and eveyone will be firneds with ehr and i will have a terriable summer. please help. give me advice that you persoannly would take bc just syaing "ignore her" wont help.
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Okay, before I say anything, watch the spelling. I know that you're angry and want to get everything down quickly, but just take a few seconds to read over and correct any mistakes. It makes our lives bit easier and it also makes the question easier to read.
Your friend isn't a true friend any longer and I think that you know that. You don't have to take anything that she says. If somebody said that to me, you know what I would do? I'd go and give them what I thought about them. Go, pick up the phone and tell your ex-friend what you've written in this letter. She needs to know as to where you stand and you need to make that plain.
You've got nothing to fear for the summer, if she dares to try and spoil it, then she's incredibly selfish and mean. You've cut all ties from her and you've got nothing to do with her. I'm sure that you're a great friend, and if she's passed you up for somebody else who is, what I call, a 'Popular, selfish kid with no life' then that's her problem.
I'm glad that you first tried to make ammends, for it would be the first thing that I would surgest, but since that didn't work, then she's beyond reasoning.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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wow she sounds like a huge bitch. the good thing is that you will have your friend with you over the summer, whenever you are forced to spend time with her just be really nice to her and act like nothing happened, it'll kind of piss her off. she wants to make you feel like crap, it makes her feel powerful, so if you just act like everything is fine then she wont have power over you anymore. if you really want to piss her off then act like she would and befriend everyone first. never say anything bad about her, say nice things about her but just slip some subtle comments about her to the people at the summer program.
hope i helped.
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Wow you are in a sticky situation!!! First thing is first, she definitely is not a true friend so as for being friends again, I wouldn't try it. Secondly, you said your friend is going too right? Well atleast right off the bat you know you have one person there that you click with. You seem like a really cool, outgoing person. Just go there and be yourself and DON'T forget that you do have your true friend going also. If you walk into this camp thinking that it's going to be a bad experience then you will walk out realizing you were right. However, if you go in determined not to let anything or anyone get you down, it'll be the best time ever. Remember the only way you and your friend can truly get back at this girl is to NOT let her win. I'm not saying ignore her, but don't give her any special attention. If you are a happy, outgoing person, you will attract more happy and outgoing people. Good luck and I hope that i've helped you out a little.
<3 Leslie
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