I'm closing my account after being on this site for longer than I can remember right now.
I would like to say thank you to all the columnists that I've met through this site, may your hearts of gold continue to shine through this site.
My reason is simple: I no longer feel I have a use for it anymore. I once was a person who couldn't help other people because of certain difficult situations in my past, but all that has now changed. This site allowed me to be who I really was and for that I'm so grateful for that. It played a very important role in my life and I'll never forget it!
The questions which I answered allowed me to reflect on my life and where it was going, and gave me the opportunity to really appreciate the life that I have, which I'm now living with open arms.
I wish you well for the future,
Triquetra....signing off for the last time.
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25/f. Dated many guys, here and there. Had 4 serious relationships. Met a guy about four years ago. We have never had a serious relationship, but have been out a few times. He always comes and goes out of my life. I really feel a strong connection to him. He lives about 5 hours from me. (driving) I think that I may like him because he is so far. haha. I would give it a chance, but i feel like he is very distant and doesnt want a relationship with me. However, he is the one who always contacts me. Should i just move on? I know, in my head i should...but my heart feels differently. (link)
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If this guy stands out to you and you feel something towards him, then give it a go and see what happens but YOU should ask HIM out and see what happens and how he responds.
There could be the possibility that he likes you too but scared that you may not feel the same way about him as he does about you (which you know isn't true), but you're making the first move. Call him, and ask him whether you could meet him somewhere for dinner.
Not breakfast because they're always tough to pull off and aren't really 'dates', lunch is an okay but dinner is definitly a date. It will show him that you have some feelings for him and he may respond in the same way.
Ignore the distance, as long as it isn't majorly far, then the realtionship can work but only as long as the two of you work together, if it gets that far (which I hope it does). Now, for long-distance relationships, I tend to surgest Skype to couples because you can talk over the internet for free and the sound is so clear that it makes it seem as if they're next to you (trust me, I've used it countless times and it's never failed once). Here's the site:
www.skype.co.uk
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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