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Time to give up?
25/f. Dated many guys, here and there. Had 4 serious relationships. Met a guy about four years ago. We have never had a serious relationship, but have been out a few times. He always comes and goes out of my life. I really feel a strong connection to him. He lives about 5 hours from me. (driving) I think that I may like him because he is so far. haha. I would give it a chance, but i feel like he is very distant and doesnt want a relationship with me. However, he is the one who always contacts me. Should i just move on? I know, in my head i should...but my heart feels differently.
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I had the same problem a while back I liked this guy, and he liked me but didn't want to be my boyfriend. Then I got mad at him for liking someone else 2. And now we're not even friends. WE CAN'T STAND EACH OTHER. (Just kidding we still sort of like each other, but yet we don't want to be near one another. So get a friend to ask him out 4 u. If he says yes GREAT. If he doesn't blow him off because if he doesn't like u then he's just missing out on alot. Find another guy if he says no.
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If this guy stands out to you and you feel something towards him, then give it a go and see what happens but YOU should ask HIM out and see what happens and how he responds.
There could be the possibility that he likes you too but scared that you may not feel the same way about him as he does about you (which you know isn't true), but you're making the first move. Call him, and ask him whether you could meet him somewhere for dinner.
Not breakfast because they're always tough to pull off and aren't really 'dates', lunch is an okay but dinner is definitly a date. It will show him that you have some feelings for him and he may respond in the same way.
Ignore the distance, as long as it isn't majorly far, then the realtionship can work but only as long as the two of you work together, if it gets that far (which I hope it does). Now, for long-distance relationships, I tend to surgest Skype to couples because you can talk over the internet for free and the sound is so clear that it makes it seem as if they're next to you (trust me, I've used it countless times and it's never failed once). Here's the site:
www.skype.co.uk
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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