I'm closing my account after being on this site for longer than I can remember right now.
I would like to say thank you to all the columnists that I've met through this site, may your hearts of gold continue to shine through this site.
My reason is simple: I no longer feel I have a use for it anymore. I once was a person who couldn't help other people because of certain difficult situations in my past, but all that has now changed. This site allowed me to be who I really was and for that I'm so grateful for that. It played a very important role in my life and I'll never forget it!
The questions which I answered allowed me to reflect on my life and where it was going, and gave me the opportunity to really appreciate the life that I have, which I'm now living with open arms.
I wish you well for the future,
Triquetra....signing off for the last time.
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I am very depressed and suicidal and very upset and I thought I had friends but I guess not.I just want to cope with it and not care. I just don't want to do anything crazy over these assholes but I just need a way to cope. can anyone please give me some help or advice? (link)
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Whenever I'm in this situation, I turn to relaxing songs which help promote self-confidence in myself.
I used to be in this position myself, no friends to speak of, a loner and nobody cared for what I thought. But I changed all of that. I began to speak to other people, sat with them and began to include myself in their conversations and that was a big turn around for me.
That it what i surgest to you, go and sit with other people. That way, they can begin to notice you and care for you. And plus, you strengthen the bond of friendship between you or even create new ones.
It took a lot of confidence from me to take this step, but it was well worth it in the end.
Here are lyrics to one of my favorite songs. It was this song which helped me to get to where I am now. It's by Mariah Carey and it's called 'Hero':
"There's a hero,
If you look inside your heart,
You don't have to be afraid of what you are,
There's an answer,
If you reach into your soul,
And the sorrow that you know will melt away.
[chorus]
And then a hero comes along,
With the strenght to carry on,
And you cast your fears aside and you know you can survive,
So when you feel like hope is gone,
Look inside you and be strong,
And you'll finally see the truth that a hero lies in you.
It's a long road,
When you face the world alone,
No one reaches out a hand for you to hold,
You can find love, oh yes you can,
If you search within yourself,
And the emptiness you felt will disappear.
[chorus]
Lord knows,
Dreams are hard to follow,
But don't let anyone tear them away,
Just hold on and hold on and hold on,
And there will be tomorrow,
In time you'll find the way.
[chorus]
Oh yes it does, oh yes it does,
I know it does. A hero lies in you."
Think about the meaning and see what it does for you.
Good luck with the future,
triquetra
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Thank you for the song. It is actually one of my favs too. Thank you!
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