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I'm closing my account after being on this site for longer than I can remember right now.

I would like to say thank you to all the columnists that I've met through this site, may your hearts of gold continue to shine through this site.

My reason is simple: I no longer feel I have a use for it anymore. I once was a person who couldn't help other people because of certain difficult situations in my past, but all that has now changed. This site allowed me to be who I really was and for that I'm so grateful for that. It played a very important role in my life and I'll never forget it!

The questions which I answered allowed me to reflect on my life and where it was going, and gave me the opportunity to really appreciate the life that I have, which I'm now living with open arms.

I wish you well for the future,
Triquetra....signing off for the last time.


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what, and when is the best way to off yourself, like the fastest and easiest (without a gun cuz i don't have one) i've tried almost everyway (but a gun obviously) but i always get caught in the act please help me. even just telling me household items to mix for instantaineous death (sorry can't spell) and don't try to talk me out of it my whole life people had tried to talk me out of it and it makes no sense i have nothing going for me everything sucks my family hates and abuses me, i have no friends, my soccer team sucks, i suck, please help (link)
I understand that you're going through a tough time. But listen to this (again).

You got great responses from people whom you've never met in you life, and not one told you how to take it. Doesn't that tell you that people do care for you? Even it isn't your immediate family, there are people who do care for you.

I know that you don't want people to talk you out of it. But here's another thing: people have told you not to do it, which shows that people whom you DO know DO care about you. If not, you would not be alive today if it wasn't for them and you wouldn't be on this site.

Now, everybody in their own way is strong, and you've got to believe that somewhere inside of you is this strong person, who wants to live. I'm going to come back to the point of helping yourself. You've got to try and help yourself if you want to get out of this. Simple things can go a long way in life.

Since you obviously didn't listen to the song which I recommended, here are the lyrics and think about their meaning:

"There's a hero
If you look inside your heart
You don't have to be afraid
Of what you are
There's an answer
If you reach into your soul
And the sorrow that you know
Will melt away

[Chorus]
And then a hero comes along
With the strength to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
And you know you can survive
So when you feel like hope is gone
Look inside you and be strong
And you'll finally see the truth
That a hero lies in you

Oh Yes it does.
This is a long road
When you face the world alone
And no one reaches out a hand
For you to hold
You can find love , oh yes you can,
If you search within yourself
And the emptiness you felt
Will disappear

[Chorus]
And then a hero comes along
With the strength to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
Because you know you can survive
So when you feel like hope is gone
Look inside you and be strong
And you'll finally see the truth
That a hero lies in you

Lord knows
Dreams are hard to follow
But don't let anyone
Tear them away
Just hold on, and hold on
And hold on.
There will be tomorrow
In time You'll find the way

[Chorus]
And then a hero comes along
With the strength to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
Because you know you can survive
So when you feel like hope is gone
Look inside you and be strong
And you'll finally see the truth
That a hero lies in you

Oh yes it does, oh yes it does,
I know it does, A hero lies in you"

Think about it. Please, do get back if you just want to talk. E-mail me at: triquetra_advice@hotmail.com

triquetra


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well duh i'm weak i have nothing to be strong for, and god hates me everyone stop telling this god stuff




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