I'm closing my account after being on this site for longer than I can remember right now.
I would like to say thank you to all the columnists that I've met through this site, may your hearts of gold continue to shine through this site.
My reason is simple: I no longer feel I have a use for it anymore. I once was a person who couldn't help other people because of certain difficult situations in my past, but all that has now changed. This site allowed me to be who I really was and for that I'm so grateful for that. It played a very important role in my life and I'll never forget it!
The questions which I answered allowed me to reflect on my life and where it was going, and gave me the opportunity to really appreciate the life that I have, which I'm now living with open arms.
I wish you well for the future,
Triquetra....signing off for the last time.
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Hey. I need some advice. I appear to be very aloof and tend to get attitudes with people easily, even if its not them I'm mad at. When i talk to people, it sounds like i dont care. I dont even make eye contact with people. BUT, so far nobody's complained about these things (unless they do it behind my back) and its important to be yourself, right? sometimes i try to hide this side of me because i'm worried that people will think i'm mean, but at the same time, thats who i am. what should i do? thanks (link)
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I kinda know what you're going through. At my current school, I've somehow created this second identity which I absolutly hate because it represses the true person I am and it's hindering me in many ways. I can't even show my true self now.
Don't fall into the trap of creating a person who isn't you, yet controls you in your every day life which is what has happened to me.
If nobody has made any complaints about the way you are, then don't worry. Remember: everybody in this world has a different attitude and some people can accept that, some others can't. Go out there and be the person whom you are and be proud of it.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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Thanks. it's nice to know that someone else knows how i feel. you're right. thanks for the advice
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