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I'm closing my account after being on this site for longer than I can remember right now.

I would like to say thank you to all the columnists that I've met through this site, may your hearts of gold continue to shine through this site.

My reason is simple: I no longer feel I have a use for it anymore. I once was a person who couldn't help other people because of certain difficult situations in my past, but all that has now changed. This site allowed me to be who I really was and for that I'm so grateful for that. It played a very important role in my life and I'll never forget it!

The questions which I answered allowed me to reflect on my life and where it was going, and gave me the opportunity to really appreciate the life that I have, which I'm now living with open arms.

I wish you well for the future,
Triquetra....signing off for the last time.


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because..I had a dream that I kissed a previous crush...previous to my actual boyfriend..meaning that..i didn't kiss my boyfriend in my dream..but kissed someone who I used to like. =X And I mean..I still like him..but I have a boyfriend..and this just makes me doubt my relationship with my boyfriend even more! (We're having some trouble in our relationship, actually...)
can it mean anything? 16/f. my boyfriend's 16 and the guy in the dream is 16..lol this is a bit ridiculous..but it might mean something..o_o (link)
I believe that dreams are a way to project what we really think, feel and want which we don't acknowledge in our 'conscious' state. But in our 'unconscious' state, we see what we truely desire. Messages if you will.

It could be that your dreams are projecting what you feel for your ex, which tells me that somewhere deep down, you're fighting between your current boyfriend and your ex and which one you want, even thought you aren't aware of it. Since it happened during a period where you're having trouble in a relationsip, your brain is playing with what your feelings to show you what you really want which i think is a nice, strong realtionship which has love printed all over it.

It isn't cheating since you aren't doing it in real life so you can relax on that one.

But if you want these dreams to stop, i surgest that you work through the issues with your current boyfriend becasue once tey've been worked out, the dreams should stop.

I hope this helped,
triquetra


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thank you so much triquetraa! very helpful. i'm so relieved that i wasnt cheating lol




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