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do dreams mean anything?
because..I had a dream that I kissed a previous crush...previous to my actual boyfriend..meaning that..i didn't kiss my boyfriend in my dream..but kissed someone who I used to like. =X And I mean..I still like him..but I have a boyfriend..and this just makes me doubt my relationship with my boyfriend even more! (We're having some trouble in our relationship, actually...)
can it mean anything? 16/f. my boyfriend's 16 and the guy in the dream is 16..lol this is a bit ridiculous..but it might mean something..o_o
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I believe that dreams are a way to project what we really think, feel and want which we don't acknowledge in our 'conscious' state. But in our 'unconscious' state, we see what we truely desire. Messages if you will.
It could be that your dreams are projecting what you feel for your ex, which tells me that somewhere deep down, you're fighting between your current boyfriend and your ex and which one you want, even thought you aren't aware of it. Since it happened during a period where you're having trouble in a relationsip, your brain is playing with what your feelings to show you what you really want which i think is a nice, strong realtionship which has love printed all over it.
It isn't cheating since you aren't doing it in real life so you can relax on that one.
But if you want these dreams to stop, i surgest that you work through the issues with your current boyfriend becasue once tey've been worked out, the dreams should stop.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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Well, here's how dreams work. When you're awake, you have a bazillion thoughts and feelings running through your mind all day long. But a lot of those things you don't have the time, or the desire, to really sit down and "think" about. So they stay buried in your subconcious. But they're still there, and your mind needs to deal with them. So it deals with them while you sleep.
As you said, you've had a crush on this guy... but since you have a boyfriend, you've probably pushed those feelings to the back of your mind, because you feel guilty thinking about it. But the feelings are still there, so your mind explores them in your dreams.
Is that bad? Not at all... it's totally normal. Having a boyfriend, even if you're totally in love with him, doesn't stop you from being attracted to other guys. That can even happen when you're happily married. It doesn't mean you don't care for or love your boyfriend... it's just a natural feeling that you can't help. What you CAN help is whether or not you act on it. If you did, then yes, that would be cheating. But just dreaming about it isn't cheating, because you didn't actually do anything wrong... you didn't even mean to dream it!
So don't worry about it. Dreams don't mean anything except that your mind is working stuff out.
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Your dream means that you still have slight feelings for your previous crush. If you still like your crush, and you are having difficulty with your boyfriend right now, then i suggest that you take a while off from having a boyfriend and think long and hard about who you like more, then if your up to it..try again. If you are doubting the relationship then you should be thinking if you actually like your boyfriend anymore.
I dont think that this would be cheating, even subconsciously, because technically your just dreaming about it, you havnt actually done anything in real life.
Hope I Helped &
Good Luck =]
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