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i am so upset right now. please help
i go to a sleepaway camp and this is my second year, this summer. last year which was my first year i got put into a bunk where i didnt really fit in, i had 3 friends. i was really close with the other bunk, i went in there all the time. i told the other bunk i want to switch into their bunk next year, and they agreed. well, forms and request sheets [bunk requests] are due april 15. the bunk i want to be in , they are all making a chain so they will all end up in the same bunk. i told my friend im gonna join there bunk and at first she said i could, now another girl in their bunk is saying she thinks it will be weird if I join because ive never been in it before, but that is the dumbest thing ive ever heard. like are you serious, i went in their bunk everyday last summer. i was basically part of it. i was friends with most of them. now a few of them are saying they dont want me to join it 1.) because they think it will be weird [which i find complete b.s.] 2.) they dont want to mess up the bunk request chain. they think ill mess it up. and okay first of all, they had a girl switch into their bunk last year and they were perfectly fine, but now when i ask, and last year they said i could, now they suddenly want to change their minds. i think it is so incredibly rude and ignorant of them to not want me in it, they think ill mess up their little clique. what the hell i was basically part of that. like wtf. half of them want me in it, only a few dont. but its like how bitchy is that, to not let someone in, because they think ill be "intruding" on their little cliqey group. that is bull shit. they didnt tell me that, but that is sooo obvious that is the reason. okay ive been crying ALL DAY i even got picked up early from school because i felt sick from crying so much. no one is helping me with this!! i cant think! i cant concentrate! and i really dont ant to go back to my old bunk, i felt so uncomfortable in there. so now its like im stuck. i have no choice. please please someone help me, i feel like if i dont get help soon ill become depressed, i am so sad right now. ever since last night, i cried myself to sleep. this is tearing me apart.
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First thing dont feel to upset. friends have these little things sometimes. Maybe its this new girl that trying to convince them.
But this other bunk you were in. The second year might be better. Seeing as its your second time this time.
I know when I went to camp. The second year is always better than the first for me and my friends, becuase you feel a little bit more relaxed ect.
Try calmly talking to the girl you your really close to in the bunk you want to move to. She might suade the others =)
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Good luck and that.
Have fun at camp.
Dont get to upset! =)
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Aw, don't feel so upset. There are plenty of other things to worry about.
Take camp as an opportunity to meet new people and bunk with other girls. Ask to be put into a new bunk with all new people, if possible, don't go with the other girls who "don't want you". Otherwise, it'll just create stupid drama that you don't want to ruin your summer.
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