I'm closing my account after being on this site for longer than I can remember right now.
I would like to say thank you to all the columnists that I've met through this site, may your hearts of gold continue to shine through this site.
My reason is simple: I no longer feel I have a use for it anymore. I once was a person who couldn't help other people because of certain difficult situations in my past, but all that has now changed. This site allowed me to be who I really was and for that I'm so grateful for that. It played a very important role in my life and I'll never forget it!
The questions which I answered allowed me to reflect on my life and where it was going, and gave me the opportunity to really appreciate the life that I have, which I'm now living with open arms.
I wish you well for the future,
Triquetra....signing off for the last time.
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ok so i never have anything to talk about with guys...what should i say/do?? like how do i get a convo going and i never have any idea what they would like to talk about so i just never really say anything to them-please help! just give me some ideas as to what to say and what will start a good conversation and what guys like to talk about (besides girls, sports, and cars cause i kno nothing about those) THANX :) (link)
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Really, you can talk to them about anything which you want, as long as it keeps them interested in you.
There is a book by Debra Fine called "The Fine Art of Small Talk" which may or may not help you (it's definitely helped me in the past) but give it a shot and see what happens. It helps you to gain confidence in starting a conversation in any situation and then it can continue you on from there. I don't think you've got a problem in talking to others (which i'm sure you don't), it's just trying to find something senisble to say which people won't laugh at or will just ignore.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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