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Talking to guys...
ok so i never have anything to talk about with guys...what should i say/do?? like how do i get a convo going and i never have any idea what they would like to talk about so i just never really say anything to them-please help! just give me some ideas as to what to say and what will start a good conversation and what guys like to talk about (besides girls, sports, and cars cause i kno nothing about those) THANX :)
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Really, you can talk to them about anything which you want, as long as it keeps them interested in you.
There is a book by Debra Fine called "The Fine Art of Small Talk" which may or may not help you (it's definitely helped me in the past) but give it a shot and see what happens. It helps you to gain confidence in starting a conversation in any situation and then it can continue you on from there. I don't think you've got a problem in talking to others (which i'm sure you don't), it's just trying to find something senisble to say which people won't laugh at or will just ignore.
I hope this helped,
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