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that teenagers are having sex earlier and earlier...
I sure dont want to have sex any time in high school...but I know lots of my friends are ready. to be honest it just all freaks me out...
yes, i'm afraid of having sex...and i just don't see how it would be pleasurable.
any comments or advice would help!
thx....
Yes, they really are starting really early now.
I can see how it could be freaky & that means that you aren't ready for it, as you already know.
If you don't want to... just don't. there's no rush. if you're still afraid by the time you're 20, then it might be a bigger issue but for now, you are completely fine. sex in high school is usuallyyyy a bad idea anyway so you're on the right track.
(Rating: 5) Thanks!