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15/f. I've never had a boyfriend before. And looking around me, I see people who have boyfriends. And it kind of tears me apart. I want to have a relationship like that with someone. I want to be close with someone. But I don't know how to go about doing that...getting one. I'm sometimes even embarrassed at the fact that there are 13 and 12 year olds who have had boyfriends, and those who've changed them many times. Do I care if he's older? No. I just really want one. Going on 16 and entering the 10th grade, I feel as though I will never get one. Is being smart a turn off? :( I wouldn't consider myself ugly either. But my self-confidence isn't that high. I don't have many real friends....which is why I want a boyfriend. Any help and advice would be very appreciated. =] Sorry for making it so long.
There's nothing wrong with that and it's not a turn off. honestly, relationships when you are 12 & 13... are not real. I don't care what anyone says. there could be a few exceptions but not many. 15 is a good time to start going out with people because you've seen how everything works from your friend's experiences and you won't do as many stupid things. You don't NEED a boyfriend but it is nice to have one. don't rush into anything & learn to love yourself first... the boys will like that.
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