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I don't personally wear abercrombie or hollister, because i know longer like it. mostly because, loser people pushed me away from it. they told me that i was being a follower, and that i should get my own taste in fashion. well, that was my taste in fashion. i actually liked it. i wasn't just following the crowd. and now, that i dont shop there. im like lost, i never know where to go. and thats not fair, that they always bugged me about it. and i even see like, on here, where people say that if you buy that stuff, then you dont know what fashion is, and your not grown up because you cant get your own opinion on things. well isnt that kinda being judgemental? i mean, not everyone is just following the crowd. i dont understand why some people make such a big deal out of it. i mean, why cant people just wear whatver they want? its just clothing? why dont those people just care about themselves? and worry whats going on with them?

i honestly, dont get that. so if your one of those people who told people that people are followers who wear abercrombie, or whatver. just someone please explain this to me.

I agree with you. I too have most of the sides of A&F and those stores. there was a time when i thought oh that stuff is skanky and overpriced blah blah i have my own taste and i'm only buying things from hot topic. it was "me & my taste" at the time. then i realized that there are a lot of ways to personalize these over produced clothes that everyone has. it's not being a follower... it's your choice to wearing what you like. I guess i would call someone that ONLY wore stuff with A&F LOGOS all the time a follower... just because it would just look stupid but other than that, whatever. it's popular and people that don't like it are probably people that can't afford it anyway. that's just how i see it.
as for not being grown up because you buy fashions.. that did get me a little ticked off because i know a lotttt of adult women that buy fashions for their age group and they are very grown up. my mom's friend is around 35 with 3 kids, one that is autistic (meaning if she wasn't "grown up" already, she definatly is now) and she buys fashionable stuff... if she were my mom, i'd let her pick my wardrobe.
anyway, that's just what i think of all this. maybe i'm missing something and i didn't quite catch the idea but i'm pretty sure this is what you're looking for.

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(Rating: 5) thankss. ya that helped.

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