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13/f
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months. He has been asking me if i could go places with him over the weekends. But the big thing is i CANT! i am not allowed to go anywhere with any guy until im 16! Its a religous standard. But i dont know how to break to him. I am afraid he might break up with me. I dont know what to do! He keeps suggesting going to the movies, hanging at his house, watching a movie at his house, or going to a relay for life walk. i feel like crap for canceling. Also i dont even want to go, im to scared it would be completly akward and stupid. But also im not aloud to. Im scared and lost. haha

thank you for all the advice.
it really helps thank you :D

just tell him you're not allowed to until you are 16... it's gonna come out sometime and he'll dump you anyway if you guys can never be together. i think you guys should break up because you're not comfortable with each other and never hang out... but that's just me. you can try going with a group of friends but that's about it. if you need anything else, let me know.

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