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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months. He has been asking me if i could go places with him over the weekends. But the big thing is i CANT! i am not allowed to go anywhere with any guy until im 16! Its a religous standard. But i dont know how to break to him. I am afraid he might break up with me. I dont know what to do! He keeps suggesting going to the movies, hanging at his house, watching a movie at his house, or going to a relay for life walk. i feel like crap for canceling. Also i dont even want to go, im to scared it would be completly akward and stupid. But also im not aloud to. Im scared and lost. haha
thank you for all the advice.
it really helps thank you :D
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just tell him you're not allowed to until you are 16... it's gonna come out sometime and he'll dump you anyway if you guys can never be together. i think you guys should break up because you're not comfortable with each other and never hang out... but that's just me. you can try going with a group of friends but that's about it. if you need anything else, let me know. <3
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You should tell him you cant hang out and why! If u dont he is gunna think u dont wanna hang out with him :/ If he wants to break up with you over it then he's clearly nothing special :) Gd Luck x x
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You have to tell him you can't ahng out with him untill your 16 and that's it's a religioud thing. After all, what good is a relationship if you can't communicate about things? If he doesn't like it and wants to break up, forget about him. He's not worth your time anyway.
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You need to tell him. Otherwise, he'll either think you just dont want to go out with him OR he'll find out and be angry that you didnt tell him. I think that if he's a good guy at all and if he really likes you, he wont care if you cant go places.
But then again, boys like action! And you dont even WANT to go on dates with him. Is this really worth it to you at all?? think about it hun, but definitely tell him.
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It's ok if he's the one he won't care. and trust me it would not be awkward personally i think bf and gf realationships are free and loving...i no this doesn't help but what I'm trying to say id be yourself ok?! hope i helped in atleast a small way :)
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