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Caught in the Middle
Ok so I have these two friends, "Jessica" and "Holly". Well, a few months ago, Holly told Jessica some of her opinions on how she acts and Jessica didnt take it very well. Basically now they both hate each other. And even though I dont want to say anything, I agree on a lot of things Holly said. But anyway they both hate each other and they both expect me to hate the other. They are both close friends of mine and I dont want to choose sides. Ive tried to stay neutral but they both keep trying to drag me into it. Ive tried to explain to them that I dont want to take sides but they still insist on it. Any ideas? Thanks ♥
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You should just keep telling them that your friends with both of them and your not picking sides! Eventually they will realise that your not going to get involved! And im sure they will sort things out with eachother evetually =) x x
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Wow...that sucks a lot. Well (A) i think you need to tell both of them how you feel. And tell them both the same thing. Tell them that you are not choosing sides. You like both of them, and you want to stay friends with both, but you are NOT choosing sides. (B)It sounds like you ARE choosing sides, whether you like it or not. If you dont like some of the things that holly does, maybe you should re evaluate your friendship with her. (C) If they are trying to get you to pick sides, they obviously value your friendship but their obviously too immature to realize the way theyre hurting you. You cant fix their friendship with eachother but you can fix YOUR friendship with them.
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