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now that its the summer im sooo board. im 13. im home alone atleast 6 days a week. im soo lonely and board. im home while my brother gets to go do what he wants and with who he wants my parents are gone out getting drunk or gambleing. ya thats my life. then everyone coming home. then the yelling starts then im wrong for everything and being yelled at for how i dress then it goes to who my friends are then my bad actions then music then makeup then so much more...GOD DAMN IT I HATE MY LIFE IM WRONG FOR EVERYTHING. haha o look talking about the bad news their home joy. sarcasm. g2g. but what do i do i cant take it its getting worse? o and now dad yelling ''GET DOWN HERE NOW I HAVE TO SPEAK TO YOU'' give you 2 guesses what did i do now. the usuall routein. what do i do next? just me no authority for now. what can i do to kill the time? for bordom. guess who..... ~randomgrl777~ (link)
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Wow. It sounds like you have a pretty hard life. Well, First of all! If anyone ever hits you, call the police. Theres like a million laws against that and you can get help.
Second...If you like writing or drawing, you could start writing a story or write in a journal. Or get a sketchbook and draw stuff.
Also you could hang out at the library if you like to read. its a great way to meet people and a good way to pass the time.
You could re arrange your room in your free time.
just some ideas..
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i am 21/f. how every sister wants a younger sister to do hair and make up and just girl stuff with. my little sister is so different. i miss her when we were little. shes just such a gloomy and dark person now. i moved out and i live far away right when i turned 18. our family was always just so bad and mean. shes not old enough to move out shes 13. our mom wont let her even go stay with me fo a week end or even come see me i have to go there. it takes over an hour to drive there. we hate our mom shes even harder on my little sister than she was on me. i feel so sorry for her. i dont know what to do. she hates our mom...she wears dark clothes has a dark personality and wears dark and alot of makeup but when i wanted to do makeup for her she was just no... no... no... no... no... no... no. god shes so depressed. shes not girly anymore at all shes worse than anyone. shes so deppressed now and shes so sneaky now. i cant listen to her music,see who shes talking to,see her room,meet her friends,see her friends list on her phone. shes wanting death soon shes driving mee so crazy ill be wanting death. she denys everything. our mom gets on her about everything and she wont listen, well neither will my mom or my sister. she wont let her wear what she likes or talk to or listen to what she wants, although she does anyway i knew she would i would too our mom wont let her do squat,god. how do i help my sister, by just me and my sister or me and our mom, anything? although our mom wont listen. what do i do to help with any of this? (link)
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Hmm...For one thing, maybe she likes dressing all dark and stuff. It is a big style now. But i dont know.
If she's depressed, you should see if you can get her to go to a therapist. That can really help someone a lot. Try taking her out to dinner or to do something fun to get you guys to talk. Just talk about light stuff and sort of bond a little bit. If shes trying to keep her friends and her life away from you, maybe hes hiding something bad. Maybe she's ashamed of who she hangs out with . I dont know. Just try talking to her but dont critisize her on the way she dresses or acts. just act like you love her the way she is and act like a sister!!
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Ok so I have these two friends, "Jessica" and "Holly". Well, a few months ago, Holly told Jessica some of her opinions on how she acts and Jessica didnt take it very well. Basically now they both hate each other. And even though I dont want to say anything, I agree on a lot of things Holly said. But anyway they both hate each other and they both expect me to hate the other. They are both close friends of mine and I dont want to choose sides. Ive tried to stay neutral but they both keep trying to drag me into it. Ive tried to explain to them that I dont want to take sides but they still insist on it. Any ideas? Thanks ♥ (link)
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Wow...that sucks a lot. Well (A) i think you need to tell both of them how you feel. And tell them both the same thing. Tell them that you are not choosing sides. You like both of them, and you want to stay friends with both, but you are NOT choosing sides. (B)It sounds like you ARE choosing sides, whether you like it or not. If you dont like some of the things that holly does, maybe you should re evaluate your friendship with her. (C) If they are trying to get you to pick sides, they obviously value your friendship but their obviously too immature to realize the way theyre hurting you. You cant fix their friendship with eachother but you can fix YOUR friendship with them.
GOODLUCK
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months. He has been asking me if i could go places with him over the weekends. But the big thing is i CANT! i am not allowed to go anywhere with any guy until im 16! Its a religous standard. But i dont know how to break to him. I am afraid he might break up with me. I dont know what to do! He keeps suggesting going to the movies, hanging at his house, watching a movie at his house, or going to a relay for life walk. i feel like crap for canceling. Also i dont even want to go, im to scared it would be completly akward and stupid. But also im not aloud to. Im scared and lost. haha
thank you for all the advice.
it really helps thank you :D (link)
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You need to tell him. Otherwise, he'll either think you just dont want to go out with him OR he'll find out and be angry that you didnt tell him. I think that if he's a good guy at all and if he really likes you, he wont care if you cant go places.
But then again, boys like action! And you dont even WANT to go on dates with him. Is this really worth it to you at all?? think about it hun, but definitely tell him.
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Can you use lemon to lighten body hair color? Like arm hair or something?
If not, what should you use besides that nasty bleach cream thing...
Thanks. (link)
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Hmmm, i dont know if it would work but maybe just try it. And if it dosent work, it dosent hurt to smell good!
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15/f. i was just wondering who on here shaves there entire pubic area or just trims it.
i currently just trim it and leave a little strip since i'm not sexually active, but i've been thinking about shaving it all off recently.
so i was just wondering if you shave it all or or trim it and why.
thanks :] (link)
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Well, im not sexually active either (and dont plan to be anytime soon) but i shave it all of about once a month just to prevent messiness.
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Ok, so I've searched everywhere
and i can't remember the quote I saw
from One Tree Hill, one episode
I know the episode was in season 3 and
called Over the Hills and Far Away
It was the episode when Peyton
went to visit Jake. The quote went
something like "Songs come to an end,
but that doesn't stop you from listening
to them" Can someone please find
me the actual quote, thanks (link)
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Ha...I dont really watch the show, but all i can tell you (this is my most reasonable answer i can come up with) is to just rent that season on dvd and find the episode.
Thankgod for netflix...
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i have a couple dark mustache hairs around my mouth. what would the best way to get rid of them - pluck, cut or die? if dying is the best way, what kind of dye can i use? and what should i do about my happy ttrail? (link)
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I would say pluck, but you have to keep up with it.
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