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Love means giving somebody the ability to destroy you & trusting them not to do it.



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I know no one can really tell me what to do. Its a "my choice" kinda of thing, but I need input.

I have a boyfriend and we'll call him Tom. Tom when we first started to go out, was nice to me and treated like a princess. Now that we have been together for a longer time, hes not. Tom behind my back to my friends calls me a bxtch, whore, slut, dumbaxs & anything else you can think of. Tom will tell my friends that they can't talk to me anymore, so now I'm down to like 5 friends when I use to had alot. He hung up on me last night on the phone and then today when I said something to him about it, he was all nice to me again.

What's the deal ? Should I break up with him ? I kind of want to, but I dont want to hurt him. I know me being happy is important but I shouldn't go around hurting his feelings should I ? ANY advice would help me alot. So thanks. (link)
I know you don't want to hurt his feelings, but think about this: how is he making you feel? I'm pretty sure he's hurting your feelings. My feelings would be pretty hurt if my boyfriend ever treated me that way. No one deserves to be treated like that in a relationship.

He's being way too controlling over your life. He can't tell you what to do or who to hang out with. I honestly think you should break up with him. You don't need a guy like that in your life. You don't need to get hurt. Put his feelings aside and focus on your own.



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