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Q: Well I've known this girl for about a year now and we're really good friends, but I'm starting to like her more than a friend (if you know what I mean.) The only problem is I don't know if I should ask her out or not. If I do and she says "yes", then great, but if she said "no", that would just be really awkward and it would be wierd every time I see her again. So...what should I do?
I have had the same problem. Or at least something similar.

I had a crush on this boy for the longest time. I told him I liked him on the last day. Then the next day I told him how i felt about him through the phone. I thought he wouldn't like me back, but things came out great.

You shouldn't be scared to ask her out. Yes, you can get nervous at first. but that's natural. I was nervous to tell him I liked him. But you'll never know. Make this time a memorable.

Girls find it pretty attractive/sweet when guys tell them how they feel about them. How much they like/love them and care for them.

But it never hurts to give it a shot. Trust me, in the end, you won't regret it.

Good luck! :)
-Paper_Heartsz

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Basics.


They call me alex
I live with one older brother and two little sisters.
I'm taken and in the 9th grade.
I am my own person. I don't try to copy other or try to fit in the crowd.
I like being weird. People tell me that sometimes, but it's okay.
I could care less who thinks of me as what.
I act like a kid sometimes. But sometimes I have those times where I want to be a treated as a young adult.


Music.


Music is life. Without it, my world would be blue.
I can't really stick to one type of music. Like some people I know.
I listen to basically anything that has meaning, or something I can dance too. Or just love the song.
I love listening to music from rock, heavy metal, death metal, rap, r&b, techno.


School.


I'm in high school.
I have the most awesome friends in the world. Yes, I know your jealous.
I don't believe in popularity or labels.
Popularity. No one is popular. Everyone is the same. Alright? OK!
Labels. Kids, get a life. Don't label, if you don't like it, they don't either.
I hate it when people just basically backstab you, I have a lot of those suckers walking around my school.
I most DEF. hate it when people change just to fit in a crowd, for another guy, or just to get attention.


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