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Hi I'm Dee. I'm 23 and married. I've worked in health care as well as office settings but am now a home-maker. I'm knowledgeable in a variety of subjects but don't mind doing a little research if asked about something I don't know about. Most of my friends come to me for advice. I read several advice columns and would like to help you also. I'm not judgemental. Your life is yours to live it as you choose. I believe asking for advice is good, but ultimately the choice is yours. You WILL NOT find a hurtful or smartass answer here.
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i always find the wrong guy!my last boyfriend was totally abusive!he would hurt me a lot..now im with this guy Zach and he FLIPS out over every little thing. like we went to the mall and we were holding hands and that, then i saw my friend Joe and i gave him a hug and after zach was like "your such a f**king hoe if you ever cheat on me again ill break up with you"..i guess i deserved that.then i went to go get some big cookies and he wanted a medium and they were outta medium so i got him large and he flipped out..what should i do!?
First, I would get rid of this guy. His behavior is outrageous. Please don't think this is your fault because it's not. It sounds to me like he has deep seated jealousy and control issues. While his abuse (Yes this is verbal and emotional abuse) so far hasn't escalated, it can and may move into a more dangerous situation.
After you've got rid of this guy, I would take a break from getting into another relationship for a while. I know from experience how easy it is to walk into another abusive relationship after leaving one. By giving yourself time to heal and rebuild your self-esteem, you'll be able to focus more clearly on determining the qualities that you need in a guy and hopefully make a better choice the next time. Good luck.
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