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Hi I'm Dee. I'm 23 and married. I've worked in health care as well as office settings but am now a home-maker. I'm knowledgeable in a variety of subjects but don't mind doing a little research if asked about something I don't know about. Most of my friends come to me for advice. I read several advice columns and would like to help you also. I'm not judgemental. Your life is yours to live it as you choose. I believe asking for advice is good, but ultimately the choice is yours. You WILL NOT find a hurtful or smartass answer here.
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hey ummm this might be long.... ok this guy i really like asked me if i wanted to lose my virginity to him....and i was like asking him questions like if we would ever go out and he said he didnt know maybe.... and he also doesnt want anyone to know about it...which i can see that to because i dont want it getting around school either but i have the feeling that he doesnt like me and he just wants to lose his virginity....but i dont know. and like after we talked about doing it around his birthday and then like all of a sudden he asks my best friend out and im like OMG... and they went out for a couple of days........ but i havent talked to him about it anymore because i havent got the chance to... but i dont think he likes me anymore... so does anyone have any advice?
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Honestly, it sounds like he just wants a piece with no strings attached. It sounds like he's using the fact you like him to convince you to give up your virginity. If you give in, you'll be setting yourself up for a heartbreak. My advice would be to tell him no, you're not interested, and then stay away from him. There are plenty of great guys out there who will like you without you having to put out.
(Rating: 5) YEAH BUT I DONT KNOW HOW I CAN STAY FAR AWAY FROM HIM CUZ HE LIVES ON MY STREET
YEAH THATS WAT I WAS THINKING TO