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Hi I'm Dee. I'm 23 and married. I've worked in health care as well as office settings but am now a home-maker. I'm knowledgeable in a variety of subjects but don't mind doing a little research if asked about something I don't know about. Most of my friends come to me for advice. I read several advice columns and would like to help you also. I'm not judgemental. Your life is yours to live it as you choose. I believe asking for advice is good, but ultimately the choice is yours. You WILL NOT find a hurtful or smartass answer here.
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I have this male colleague that I consider as one of my closest friend in the office. Everything changed when our officemates started making some jokes that he was gay. I asked him straight out if he is and he swears to me he's not. Carrying on with our friendship, we went on a drinking spree with some friends. Tipsy, he started to get touchy-feely all over me and in a joking manner he was suggesting that we go home together in his house. Eversince then, he would praise my looks and point blank flirt with me in a casual manner? I wonder now if he's doin this to erase the rumor that he is gay or he's seriously flirting with me? Either way shall I continue to befriend him?
Perhaps when you asked if he was gay, he assumed that you were interested in him. If that's the case, it sounds like he's interested as well. I would talk to him and see if you can find out if that's the case.
(Rating: 5) You know what? I followed your advice but whenever I set out to meet him and talk it out, he seems to be avoiding me? Its funny but he is making it quite obvious... I think we are both having an awkward time digesting all of this. After all, its like entering a new dimension for both of us. I haven't pictured out something like this to happen. He opened a "Pandora's Box" and the irony is the joke is now on me! Thanks a bunch for your advice, it sure helps!
Sherrynikko