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Love means giving somebody the ability to destroy you & trusting them not to do it.



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Hey everyone, I'm 14/Female in eighth grade...

Anyways, at my middle school we have a Valentines' Day Carnation Sale, and with every carnation you send sort of this "note" type thing with a message on it for the person you want to receive the flower. A really nerdy guy sent me a carnation today! Like, your typical violin-playing, huge glasses-wearing geeky dude. Even worse: on the note he asked me out! I don't know how to say "thanks but no thanks" nicely. I really don't want to break the kids' heart, because with his social status it must have been really hard to work up the courage to do something like that. I admit, it was really, really sweet of him! I just don't like him in that way. For one thing, I barely even know the kid...and I guess I would be kind of embarrassed to be even SEEN with him. Wow, I sure do sound stuck up =[. I just don't know of any nice ways to say "no". Anyone have any ideas? Thank you so much.

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Hey, Well if I were you I would just tell him that you barely know him and you aren't really looking for a relationship right now.
Maybe mention how you would like to be just friends with him.
Tell him it was very sweet of him to send the carnation and that you really appreciate it.



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Thank you! I think I'm gonna do that.
♥ JCM




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