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I'm Almedina. I'm foreign, and I'm pretty much ready to handle whatever life throws at me. Ha, pretty random that I go from being foreign to life,but anyways. I've had this column for about two yearsnow, and I don't update it as I should, or want to but with school and this crazy teenage life of mine, it gets pretty hard to do so. I've been giving advice to all my friends since I can remember and I love trying to help them. I'm out going and extrememly loud once you get to know me. I'm usually shy at first unless I've gotten to know you. I don't understand life sometimes. But I've got my whole life to figure out the meaning of it. I'm selfish at times, and stubborn. I care too much about things I shouldn't and not enough about the MOST important things in my life. I'm very annoyed with people at times, and tend to just block everyone out. I'm afraid to say I'm in love, but I'm not afraid of love itself. I'm myself and that's all I can be. I've gone through a lot, so I'm willing to help in whatever way I can (:

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I think that I want to have sex and have a baby

Ok well first of you just prooved you aren't mature enough for a baby. Why ? Well you wouldn't be typing like thiz and you`re a kid yourself like the others said. Another thing, instead of putting yourself and your baby at danger of diffuculities and death, you could just take a job of babysitting and take care of tons of kids. Having sex isn't everything. It's just a stupid thing that kids do nowadays to make themself "cool." Yeah well you can be cool and not have sex so young. Just take a babysitting job and you can take care of kids all the time. It will be good experience for when you grow up and are mature enough to have a kid. Now don't get me wrong, I`m not being mean I'm just telling you the truth. Now if you don't like it, that's your own fault.

EDIT :: I understand where you`re coming from but even if you had enough money you are't ready for a child. There are a lot of responsibilies with a child. They come with a whole big package. You need the time, money, and patience. You are still in school and dropping out would be the dumbest possible idea ever because right there would show that you can't take care of your baby. Because you would need a hob right? Right, and no one will hardly except you without education. Not even McDonald's. I know you want to feel loved and want to have a reason to live. But think about it. Do you really want to put yourself at risk? Since you are so young, they could even take your baby away. And then your just hopeless. Going through what you have may be tough. I know your life may not be the best but you have to make it the best as it can get. It's your life, you only get to live it once. Talk to your mom about this or even someone else, like a teacher, friend, another adult, or a conclar[sp?]. Good luck babe.

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(Rating: 5) I don't think your trying to be mean but i know that I could take care of a baby if I had more money. I would never let myself see my baby hurt in any way and I would make sure it had everything. I havent had sex I am a virgin and I wouldnt do it to be cool. I was sexualy asaulted and now everyone thinks Im a slut for somethign I didnt do ... my life isnt as easy as people think which is why i want a baby someone to love a reason for me to live.. someone for me to take care of because id have to take care of myself in order to take care of themm .. you get what i mean?

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