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I'm a 16/f and I've liked this guy for 4 years now, ever since one of my friends dated him. Just in the past 8 months we've been talking and spending time together. Around August we stopped talking until just recently. I asked my friend for advice on what to say to him because I'm super shy. But now since it's Winter Break and he isn't busy with school or work much. So the other night I went over to his house. He kind of pressured me into having sex, I'm not complaining or anything because I wanted my first time to be with him but I just didn't imagine it being then. My friend keeps telling me that's the only reason he talks to me is because he wants to have sex, since we didn't talk for a long time until the topic of sex came up. I'm really confused with him. When I'm with him it's almost like I'm memorized by him and make myself believe that he has feelings for me. But on the other hand I can see where my friend is coming from when she says he's using me, she's my best friend and doesn't want to see me hurt. What do you think? I don't want to be someone he only calls when he's horny. I'm not that type of girl. (link)
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No one on this site really knows the guy.
So no one can really tell you if he is using you or not.
But think of this; does he MOSTLY/ONLY talk to you when he's horny and wants to get you in bed?
If he does then most likely he is using you.
Also would your best friend lie to you about something like that?
Don't talk to him for a day or two and let him come to you. And when he does if he pressures you into having sex then most likely he is using you.
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