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I like this guy, and when I say that I mean alot. The problem is, I have a horrible feeling I wont get to have him. Hes known to "get all the girls". Hes almost perfect. I think he is. Normally I'm not comfurtable around most people, but even the first day that I met him I was completly comfurtable, and the doesnt happen very often so I didnt get it. Also I dont really flirt with guys cause im not comfurtable but I do with him. He doesnt go to my school so it makes things harder. I dont think im going to get him, at all. So my question is, how do I make this feeling go away? I dont like knowing that the one person whose come around in a long time who I am COMPLETLY comfurtable with (which is extremly rare for me) is all over other girls and my chances with him might be slim. I just need to know how to get over this fast. Thanks. Sorry for ranting on. Ill rate 5's to good answers.
You say get over, but if he's as perfect as you say he is, is this something you'd be willing to let go without kicking and screaming? Since you don't see him on a day to day basis, however, you probably have less of a perspective of his true personality. He might seem almost perfect but the only time you can truly see what kind of person he really is is how he interacts with others. You say that you are comfortable around him, why are you not comfortable with yourself enough to pursue him? Don't worry about other girls' chances when it's about YOU and what YOU do. When playing a sport, say soccer, can you really put numbers and percentages on your chances of winnings? Sure you could but that makes the game completely pointless if we have calculators to play for us. Yes it does play a role but as you know underdogs sometimes pull up top. It depends on determination and confidence in yourself. Try again. ;)
(Rating: 5) Thanks you so much.