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okay, I am 21 and still a virgin. I have done other stuff just not had sex yet. The thing is I was almost raped by one of my ex boyfriends and I am kind of scared of guys now, not all but some of them. I feel really pathetice because I am still a virgin and I am 21. Plus my uncle has aids and that is another reason why I am scared. I don't have a bf right now but am looking for one. When I do find one and we have sex how can I make myself less scared to have sex? Is there anything I can do to calm myself down?
any help will be great, guys and girls
I so promise you aren't alone. My fiance is 37. So he's a late bloomer, but he's waiting. It's been difficult as the "not a virgin," but I got tired of being stuck with the absolute wrong guy. It isn't easy to keep it.
The best way to have sex is with someone you can totally trust. Whether that is in marriage or not. That means someone to help you take care of the possible child or sickness that happens if you have sex. Someone who is there after all the possible good and bad things. So I would strongly suggest waiting, and don't let it bother you so much.
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thanks so much for your advice. You have really helped me the most. I will try not to let it bother me so much.
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