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there were these kids today that were in my 4 th period class who were lookin at the picture of me and my boyfriend. to be honest he isnt the hottest thing out there but i really dont care i love my boyfriend to death. but they started diss him and sayin all this shit about him. they were sitting right behind me doin this and thought i was stupid and didnt noe what they were talkin about. can i turn that in for sexual harrassment? everything they said affended me and i got really sad and when i get sad i get quiet and that is what happened. i wanted to get up and hit ever single one of them and then show them what is so funny, but instead i thought it through and decided that they werent worth it so i ignored them and NOTHIN changed. they kept going and goin all period. (which was 30 mintuess left) here are my question:
1) could i turn them in for harrassment?
2) tomorrow if they start it again should i stand up and give them a piece of my mind?
3) do u think i should tell my boyfriend about this? (he doesnt go to my school)
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i am a 14/f and a freshman
The best thing to do is just ignore them and let it go. Besides, how did they get their hands on pictures of you and your boyfriend anyways? Just let boys be boys and it'll get old pretty soon. Like girls, they love to nag and pick at other people because they aren't comfortable with something about themselves.
You should not beat yourself down about it because that's what they want. If you're happy with him then that is all that matters. It might be offensive and immature on their part but if you react with outrage then that just gives them even more reason to continue.
If they continue to bother you, confront them and say "Hey, what you're saying really bothers me and I don't pick at your body so don't pick on my boyfriend's." This is not sexual harrassment since they weren't talking about your body specifically, unless they make comments about things such as sexual favors, making up personal information about you and your boyfriend, you get it. This is, however, a form of harrassment. If they do not stop you might want to let your professor know and change your seating.
(Rating: 5) thanks so much..