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I made out with my boyfriend last night and my older brother walked in on us (we were in my room with the door locked but my bro just has to stick a penny in the door too twist it.. if you know how those work yeah)... He came in and got really really pissed and started yelling at my bf (which made him leave), My brother had me in tears, he acted like he was my parents he was yelling at me and everything... I mean all we were doing was making out just sitting there not even laying down or anything. Im 14 and hes 17 but he was sooooooo mean and he told my parents so now im grounded for a frigin MONTH!!! I was so pissed at my brother and he said he didnt want me too turn into a slut (wth all we did was makeout) So this morning he was in the living room and he told me my bf called and my bro told him he wasnt allowed to call my house anymore... WHY IS he taking this so out of proportion.. I started crying again so i told him i hated him and that i wished he would die and burn in hell... :( That got me grounded for even longer but i didnt mean it :( Ive tried apologizing and he wont listen too me. Does anybody know how i could apologize too him and handle this whole situation all together because if not i could lose my BF.. because hes not allowed over here and my parents say i cant see him :(.

you need to talk to your parents first. tell them that you love them TO DEATH but your growing up and you would never go any farther than making out until your WAY older. tell them that your sorry but they really need to give a little faith in you. dont say it like your mad though bc that would lead to BAD things. and then once they forgive you and that stuff go to your brother and say the same thing. tell him that you hate fighting with him and you didnt mean what you said, you just were really mad and didnt know how to say it the right way. i REALLY hope it helps. tell me how it works out : )!

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