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ok !i am having a really bad problem. well me and my boyfriend got into a serious arrgument today. he got mad at me cause he said that i was smiling at his friend. i am like omfg cant i even look at anyone.and on the bus today he broke up with me. then he called me and asked me if i would go back out with him. he apoligized and i said ok. well he called me and talked to me a while ago and i dont even think his sister likes me. so what should i do brake up with him or not? srry for this bein so long.
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First off: you shouldn't break up with him because of his sister. That's as bad as him not letting you smile at his mates. (Although I realise there are problems other than his sister).
I think you should wait it out for a little while. He is probably being possesive because he cares about you a lot. It's cute but you shouldn't have to deal with it. Let's hope he's learnt his lesson and will stop it now!! If he is still being all possessive and not even letting you look at people after a week or so, then have a word with him. Tell him that you like him a lot/love him but you can't be with him if he is going to be like this. You are your own person and you can be friends with whoever you want. Don't let him dictate your life and who you smile at. Assure him that you like/love him - he is probably just insecure.
If he is STILL doing it...then I think you need to break up with him. He obviously doesn't trust you and you don't like how he treats you, and that doesn't make for a healthy relationship.
However, this isn't all about him. You're going to have to try and put up with his sister, and make double sure that you don't flirt with anyone. Sure, you can talk to them, and yep it is his problem if he sees that as flirting, but just make sure you definately don't flirt with anyone 'cause that could really hurt your boyfriend.
Good luck!!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
(Rating: 5) thanks so much for your advice it was very helpful