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It's another crazy year in my world of entropy. I am engaged now and very excited. It will be a little while before we can get married due to money constraints, but it will happen.
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Ok so I met a girl at a picnic. Shes very shy and so am I. Im 21 shes 19. I saw her again at another picnic the week after and I asked her for her number and got it and we hung out that whole night. I called her Tuesday and like she didn’t ask one question and I opened up somehow and asked a lot. Thing is shes very shy and actually never had a boyfriend before because she focused on family and school. So what do I do to open her up and find if she even likes me. Any advice is helpful.

P.S. What would a good first date be for some one who never had a bf?

You got a listener on your hands. At least for a little bit. She's probably taking notes. As long as she still wants to spend time with you, don't worry about it right now. If it continues after a month, then maybe you have a communication problem.
I would suggest meeting her for lunch. You have a set amount of time together, and if you want to continue after its much easier. Especially since it is in public. Be sure to pick somehwere moderately quiet so that you can hear one another. Johnnny Rockets did not work for one of my first dates because I couldn't hear him.
Another idea would be have her invite one of her friends and their date along. At least she is guaranteed to have someone to talk you and you can overhear some of the things she is interested in. Or you can talk to her friend and get to know more about her.
Just don't force the issue and it will be great.

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