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It's another crazy year in my world of entropy. I am engaged now and very excited. It will be a little while before we can get married due to money constraints, but it will happen.
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All my friends say my boyfriend is weard (mohawk) and an @$$. But he is always kind and respectful to me. Every time someone askeds me if i'm "really" going out with him they laught an say "wow, ok". I think i should dumb him but as i said "he is always kind and respectful to me" what should i do?!?!?!?!

Ignore them. No really, unless he has some sort of horrible influence on you, they have no right to bother you about it. He is just wearing his differences on the outside for now to separate himself from the cookie cutters.
If he is really an @$$ to other people, then maybe you should ask him why he is so angry. People do grow out of these things, and become "normal" or at least a contributing member of society. Even jerks deserves someone to love. I would definitely try to encourage him to be respectful to other people, an the best way to do that is lead by example. And when that happens, maybe the judgemental will be shocked by his change.

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