hi i've been with my boyfriend for quite a few years now, but unfortunately, everyday i start to think to myself that i should leave him. why is because every single time we get into fights, he never is willing to stay and work it out. he either hangs up the phone and ignores my phone calls/messages or says "just drop it" with an attitude. he also calls me names like bitch when he loses his temper, and personally, i've had enough.
but as you can imagine, i have grown emotionally attached to this guy. i fell in love with who he once was, a sweet, considerate, man. but now it's like i don't know who he is anymore and lately it's just the only thing i can think about is how the quality of our relationship is slowly crumbling beneath us.
i personally do want to call it quits, or at least take a break from each other for a little while, but he refuses. he says things like he can't live without me, and if i leave him he'll kill himself. in a sense i feel that i'm forced to stay in this relationship because i don't want to live knowing i made someone commit suicide over me.
it's a really sticky situation, and i don't know what to do anymore. i do love this guy, but i feel as though i'm falling out of love with him for the person he has become.
please help...
Don't let him blackmail you into staying in an unhealthy relationship. He is saying these things to scare you and to make you stay. Let someone know about his cutting tendencies and get out of the relationship. You deserve better than this and you will feel better in time. It will take a lot of work on your part to recover. But he is a control freak and out of control. It is no fun being in a relationship that you have no say in. The fact that he is unwilling to compromise with you makes me say that you definitely need to go. Surround yourself with your friends and get busy doing something else with your time.
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thanks for your advice...only if what you said were that easy.
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