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Have you ever thought that you liked someone when you were going out with a different someone (that you love soooo much!) and sometimes wonder what it would be like to be with the other person?

I know its wrong, and i told my boyfriend {of 1yr and almost 2mos.} but i dont know how to stop. because I don't truly like these other people. I Love my boyfriend tho. I hope this isn't too confusing!!

Anyone experienced this?

Help me to stop please!

Oh, I would never cheet on my boyfriend or break up with him. So your probabaly wondering, "whats the problem them?" well I still dont want to think these things. i mean i know im a teen (freshman/female) but I have a great boyfriend and I know this isnt right! so, anyone??

Thanks In Advance!

-*KeLs*-

p.s.=if this doesnt make since { how i worded it or if you need to know something else}, say so in your answer, and i'll re-ask the question to you differently!

Thanks!! :)

It's normal to have these feelings sometimes, even when you aren't a teenager. The good news is that you at least have a good communication line going with your boyfriend. I think you need to figure out what is missing in your current relationship that you are searching for in fantasizing about another one. And if you did break up with your boyfriend, you probably wouldn't feel for the other guy necessarily. This is part of "being in love" that may not settle out until you are ready to forsake all others and be married to your beau. So do some soul searching and don't beat yourself up too much.

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(Rating: 5) Yeah! thanks.


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